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Top 10 Vegan Wedding Ideas

The following article was written by Alexa Hanrahan.

Whether you want an intimate indie love fest or a royal-level extravaganza, diving in to wedding planning can seem a little taxing. Toss your desire to have a cruelty-free vegan wedding into the mix, and planning can seem borderline intimidating. But have no fear, compassionate brides-to-be—and grooms-to-be too!—we’ve got some fun and easy ways to “veganize” your nuptials. Get the jump on the 2012 wedding season with PETA’s Top 10 Vegan Wedding Ideas:

1. Trade a bachelor or bachelorette party for a day at a sanctuary or an animal shelter.
You can party down in the evening, but take a day (or three) with your besties and volunteer at an animal shelter or visit a sanctuary. It will be a great excuse to do something selfless in the middle of a very “me” time. Who knows—the visit may unearth compassion that your friends didn’t realize they possessed. (Be sure to ask the sanctuary if you can bring a vegan picnic—or better yet, inquire about having your ceremony on the property!)

2. Look good.
If they haven’t already, people will ask you what you’re going to wear on the big day, and if you do it right, they’ll want to know where it came from after you’ve rocked the aisle. Whether you’re thinking about a gown, a three-piece suit, or something a little less traditional, there are cruelty-free options galore! Avoiding animal products (including silk and wool, among others) is easier than ever. There are some great alternatives to silk that you can wear without looking like you’re going to prom in 1987. And brides: Using cruelty-free makeup and hair products can also be a conversation piece—when your cousin wants to know the secret behind your glow (other than a healthy vegan diet and, you know, being in love), you can bust out your line of eco-friendly, cruelty-free beauty supplies. Check out PETA’s extensive list of cruelty-free companies and products to get started.

You can also adopt a “no fur, no skins” policy. Whether you’re asking your bridesmaids and groomsmen to wear specific outfits or letting everyone express themselves freely, request that they leave the shoes, belts, and accessories with bits of animal skins at home. Offer a hand in finding alternatives for those buying or renting (vegan shopping spree, anyone?), and challenge your friends to find options in their own closets that are animal-free—they may be surprised!

3. Opt for vegan catering.
Vegan catering is a great way to spare animals and introduce your loved ones to food that can keep them healthier! If you’re tying the knot in a major city, finding a practiced vegan catering company shouldn’t be a problem. If you’re in a smaller city or town, shop around for someone who feels right to you and your betrothed. Most caterers will be happy to … well … cater to your dietary choices. Just be upfront about what you want (and don’t want) and get involved—offer to provide vegan recipes and make suggestions. This is a day to feast, so make sure that your caterer understands that vegan meals go above and beyond grilled, steamed, and puréed vegetables! Stress full, hearty dishes with your favorite veggies, grains, faux meats, and fixin’s, and be sure to have them cook a sample meal for you beforehand so that you know it’s what you had in mind.

Cruelty-free dessert is a vegan cakewalk. With so many delicious variations available, guests will be circling the dessert table for seconds … or thirds. Vegans are crafty and have great dairy- and egg-free versions of red velvet cake with buttercream frosting, cheesecake, lemon king cake, chocolate peanut butter cake … you name it. If you feel like your baker might be a little lost, try some recipes out at home and take them with you when you have your first appointment.

You can take food to a whole new level by printing out recipes or information about what you’re serving and including it with place settings or favors—that way, people will know what they’re eating and have a chance to learn about all the benefits of a vegan diet. Knowledge is power—especially for any relatives who may not understand your compassionate choices!

4. Have a “Be Kind” bar.
Take back the bar and test your tender’s skill by renaming drinks! Quirky and thought-provoking titles will get people talking. Example: “Horseless Carriage Ride: Formerly the double Manhattan, this drink will inspire you to take New York’s most famous cruelty-free method of transportation home—a cab!”

5. Give cruelty-free gifts to your wedding party and guests.

  • Donate on behalf of your guests: Spending a little money on your loved ones to thank them for sharing your special day with you is a sweet tradition. Instead of investing in a knickknack that will sit on the back of a shelf for decades, why not provide PETA’s wedding favors of compassion—a beautiful addition to any table and easy to travel with, and best of all, your gift will help animals who need it!
  • Soy-based candles: Available everywhere from chain grocery stores to high-end boutiques, soy-based candles are affordable, sweet ways to say “Thank you.” They come in all the sizes, scents, and colors that old-fashioned beeswax candles do. If you have a color theme for your celebration, candles can tie it all together.
  • Vegan recipe books: Include your ultimate drool-inducing recipes in a personalized, pocket-size booklet for guests to take home. It’s more intimate than buying cookbooks for everyone and will give you an excuse to bond in the kitchen with your beau’s family at holiday meals.

6. Plan meaningful speeches.
Talk to anyone who’s planning to make a speech about including some details about your vegan lifestyle. Parents, siblings, and close friends probably have a pretty good idea about why you’ve made the choices you’ve made, but some distant relatives, work friends, etc., could probably use a little background. Your compassion for animals is another thread that ties you to your future spouse, and any quirky or heartwarming details about how that thread binds you two together will bring down the house.

7. Create a compassionate send-off.
Not thrilled by the prospect of being pelted with tiny projectiles or blown out of your veil by a well-meaning friend’s fireworks? Supply your well-wishers with bubbles, dried lavender, or sparklers … just make sure that any onsite animal companions are safely inside.

8. Create a “My Vegan Wedding” comment box.
Ask your guests to write down a few things before the end of the reception that were unexpected but thoroughly enjoyable. Did flesh-loving Uncle Ronnie think the black-bean sliders were out of this world? Was Grandmommy surprised that your gorgeous hair and makeup was the result of cruelty-free products? It’s a great way to give folks a moment to reflect on not only the day itself but also the values that you and your boo share.

9. Request that wedding presents be given to animals.
You are starting a new life with the person you love, and what better way to celebrate than to help save lives with your gifts? Ask your loved ones to donate to an animal rights organization, an animal shelter, or a sanctuary in your names, and you’ll not only feel good but also save paper by not requiring gift receipts! Keep in mind that money isn’t the only item that these groups need. Encourage guests to look into volunteering, attending demonstrations and rallies, or donating blankets, toys, and food to rescues in need!

10.  Check out vegan-friendly honeymoon locations and travel resources.
Just outside Rochester and Buffalo, New York, Minty Wellness uses vegan, organic, and ethically sourced products and boasts an all-vegan restaurant. Known for its beautiful views and spa treatments, Minty Wellness offers a relaxing honeymoon environment.

In “America’s Finest City,” the Hilton San Diego Bayfront Hotel offers a vegan menu (available through room service as well, no less!) that would make omnivores drool. With great rooms that feature bath products by cruelty-free company Crabtree & Evelyn, you can kick back in luxury without compromise!

If you’re looking for a Costa Rican adventure, a short walk from the center of Puerto Viejo lies the Cashew Hill Jungle Lodge. Made up of several cottages that include full kitchens and spectacular views, Cashew Hill is in close proximity to a number of wildlife refuges and national parks—and if you don’t want to leave the oasis, gardens on the grounds have a number of resident sloths!

Venture to the Ginger Cat Bed & Breakfast, where you can snuggle up to one of the many kitties native to the Watkins Glen, New York, spot. With an all-vegan menu and a long list of vegan-friendly wineries nearby, what more could you ask for?

Viva Las Vegans! The Wynn and Encore Tower Suites have vegan menus, approved by Steve Wynn himself. With 18 restaurants on board, vegan honeymooners can have breakfast, lunch, and dinner in bed!
Plan your perfect newlywed getaway at Veg Voyages, Green Earth Travel, and Active Veggie Tours International.

Are you a vegan groom- or bride-to-be? How has your lifestyle influenced your special day? Share your experience with us in the comments section below.

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  • K A says:

    All the dresses I’ve liked so far are made with silk. Grrrrr. The search continues…

  • Wedding Favor says:

    Nice ideas Alexa. I got so much ideas from this article

  • Fender says:

    Heya i am for the first time here. I came across this board
    and I in finding It really helpful & it helped me out much.
    I hope to present one thing again and aid others like you helped me.

  • Ellen says:

    Great article and almost all the comments were good contributions too.
    Ive just started drafting our ceremony and Im still sort of stuck.
    1) Does anyone know of good Vegan suppliers or caterers in Cornwall, England
    2) This is sort of a strange question, but I feel that the joining of my soulmate and I is something too special to be shared. So Im stuck cos by UK law the wedding needs to have 2 witnesses and a register. Neither of us follow religion and I am learning towards the Divine Love Path. The law also says that the wedding has to happen in a building. Ideally I wanted just my hun n I sat on a bench watching the sea, having a good heart to heart, perhaps exchanging rings, then joining the guests for celebrations.
    I really dont like the idea of having a complete stranger whom knows nothing about us to declare that we are an item.

  • Stacey says:

    I love all of these ideas. Some I might not use, such as the suggestion box, but I came up with an idea of my own using a printer with soy based inks and just getting your friends to take a photo and write their message on the back to put in a wedding keepsake book for yourself.

    If your guests will be “offended” at anything that you have at your wedding, perhaps they aren’t deserving of being at your wedding. My friends and family might not be vegan, but they certainly wouldn’t be offended or angry at the idea of a vegan wedding. And as for giving donations in place of useless knickknacks is not “gift-grabby” considering you’re not actually asking for anything. If your guests care about you, they care about your passions and therefore will appreciate what you’re doing for something you love. If they get upset because they didn’t get a gift, perhaps you’ve made some seriously selfish friends and you might want to consider your relationship.

    I love all of these ideas. We should have a forum where people can post other ideas they’ve come up with, seen, or done in their wedding! :)

  • zoe ruth says:

    thanks for the lush and thoughtfl ideas i will use them at my creulty free wedding thanks for all you do you truely save lives and help make others bearable

  • Seraphim says:

    Sarah, you’re an idiot. The grandma and grandpa raised eating chickens comment? How asinine can you be? I’m sure g’ma and g’pa live purely on meat and don’t eat those ‘scary’ food groups known as fruits and vegetables. Seriously, what the heck?

  • Charlotte says:

    Thanks for the great ideas! I am having a vegan wedding this coming July. My fiance was raised on meat but we have agreed that our wedding will be vegan and that our home will also be vegan. We figure – our guests are there to support our decision to marry and they are there for us – it will be a Catholic wedding and people should dress and act appropriately in Church and I feel the same about the reception. Why should we compromise our values? True friends will understand and respect our decisions.
    I usually find people are surprised to find out just how varied a vegan diet can be!

  • Kristin says:

    Thanks for this awesome article, Alexa! :)

  • Sara says:

    It’s your wedding, your day so you can do whatever you want, even if that includes asking your guests to be vegan for the day. If they have an issue or don’t understand your motives and don’t respect your wishes then maybe they shouldn’t be there in the first place.
    I loved this article.

  • Diane says:

    re: #7: None of the Catholic churches in my area allow for throwing rice because of the harm they do to birds, and it’s forbidden city-wide to set off fireworks inside city limits. Bubbles aren’t allowed either because they might create dangerous conditions outside the church, but I’m not too sure about birdseed (and that should surely be better for the feathered friends who’d be gathering around to witness the happy event).

    I agree with the commenters who say you can’t force your wedding guests to wear things other than specifying formal, casual formal, etc., nor can you severely restrict your bridal party from certain accessories unless you’re paying for everything. But as far as serving vegan fare at your wedding? If you’re paying for it, you get to choose. You may be able to give your guests options within the vegan menu, but if you don’t want to serve meat or dairy, everyone should be capable of shutting up and eating the free meal they’ve been given.

    BTW, while I think it’s honorable asking people to do volunteer work the afternoon of one’s hen night or stag do, it is going a bit too far to put in a suggestion box or lecture via the drinks you serve at the bar.

  • Sarah Broadbent says:

    Lol @ all the people complaining about the etiquette of requesting that people don’t wear dead animals to your Wedding. If you’re a religious person, I wouldn’t come to your house wearing a T-shirt with an offensive atheist slogan, so why would you think it’s ok to go to someones wedding wearing dead animals when they’re committed to a life of veganism? Wear some synthetic shoes and learn how to be a good friend! (Maybe I’m just being very ‘Australian’, I think we’re a lot more relaxed about this stuff *shrugs*)

  • Sally says:

    Based on some of the comments, it appears that proper etiquette trumps saving animals’ lives… how tragic. I’ll take compassion over etiquette any day. We still have a long way to go.

  • Sarah says:

    Several of these ideas, while well meaning, are totally against etiquette. Requesting your wedding party (and guests?!) buy special no-animal shoes/belts/outfits for your event is just too much unless you plan on footing the bill. You shouldn’t have a say at all in presents or speeches. Those aren’t mandatory and by even suggesting such things sounds gift-grabby. Rude. Telling someone they aren’t getting a gift, instead you’re donating in their name may sound nice, but to your guests, its just rude. You’re better not saying anything at all and just doing it.The comment box is also a bit much for most. To be frank, most people won’t care if your wedding is vegan-friendly. They are there for you. Just you. As for the catering, that is a tough one. You might want to at least provide other options for guests. What about grandma and grandpa who were raised eating chickens and such, and refuse to eat anything else in their old age? You will likely spend a lot for such an option that many will hardly touch. These all sound nice, but just are asking for disaster. The only ones that might work and no one be offended are 1, 2, 7, and 10.

  • Melanie Dedmon says:

    Love this article. Very excited to use these ideas in the future.

  • Meg says:

    A lot of these tips, like asking guests to wear vegan clothing, would be considered rude in nearly all circles. Generally one does not say ‘Come to my wedding, and oh, pick up some dress vegan shoes and plan to attend a rally.’ That’s pretty out there…

  • Staceylee says:

    Thank-you for acknowledging the “vegan” wedding industry. I am a owner of a Organic Beauty Boutique in Ontario Canada and we also cater to Mobile Makeup and Hairstyling for Weddings at their destinations carrying vegan makeup and haircare products. Plan your wedding with a positive impact!

  • Mark Hawthorne says:

    This is a nice list of suggestions. Unfortunately, I’ve discovered that finding a vegan suit at a reasonable price for my impending nuptials is something of a challenge. I finally located a small shop in Berkeley that will help me, but it seems ethical men are a long way off from being able to walk into a department store and find a good suit … for any occasion.

  • Marissa Rodriguez says:

    LOVE LOVE LOVE this article!

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